YAYAYAYA probably thinking another poetry but didn’t feel like to so here are some simple annotations.
Nyways with people around me getting married and tying nuptial knots also looking at the people who already are tied, oops taken a vow to spend their 7 births(gosh doesn’t that seems a bit too optimistic) …..Was thinking is it really that necessary and mandatory to be with someone. I mean, yes there is love there is selflessness, care and responsibilities and then age old tirade to be with someone in old age as loneliness will scoff and chomp you out. But do we stick around when God Sent affirmation irrespective of this so called thing RELIGION, I mean the method you were tied to your loved ones is bestowed upon us.
Interestingly at this juncture and age everyone is awfully curious looking for their Mr. Perfect and Mrs. Right…that judgments seep through impossibly fast. Well is it the social pressure or the loneliness bug that eats you which compels you to change sometimes so drastically?? …..Be nice open hearted care for your better half. But regrettably you decide to look for yourself also ooo a serious crime in these turbulent times as the common human tendency …ehh trying to stand on two boats and row in one!!! Are you? Precisely this is the age for you to metamorphose, get accustomed to the traditions and yes be a vanguard of our great society…..and then Ultimate realization struck you MAA KI AANKH …..WHO AM I or to be blunt WHO WAS I ???
It’s not as if you are self centered absorbed moron philosophizing about oneself, but a normal complete simple idiotic person thinking of changing in the world through his goodliness. Profit was not materialistic but it was as naïve & innocent as what you cherished and desired and you did. Buttt and yes I mean a big but, after the sacred tie Lolz you gifted, you squandered your happiness. Don’t try to pinpoint & blame, because you only chose to be in this situation and mixed your trust and life and shared with the other’s life, its genuine, you can’t abscond and run as someone else has (hopefully :P) bequeathed everything for you with utmost faith( THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT MAJORITY THINKS). Amazed hope so then? So why this whole idea of coming together was it Love, Infatuation or getting it stamped & approved by the torchbearers of society and God given relations and then ultimately going thru the ordeal ,,,,,,guess what the GEN X came with a trend called LIVIN or staying together.. get to know each other and then deciding for the trademark stamp … (haha forgive me for using the word stamp,,, but it suxx yeah the whole approval , does Love really needs a certification or is it a demonic barbarian invading the life ) ….yeahhhh so this Livin relation was like a Supernova solution to this “PROBLEM” …..M sorry folks it backfired, extreme and utter failure resulting in more chaotic situations …you probably will ask – REASONS!! Observation stands as a definition” before being together you acted what you wanted to be portrayed but when u move together ….the TAKENFORGRANTED effect looms large and then starts the differences, differences in opinions, differences in thinking, differences in life style the whole differences in life and probably the whole foundation is shaken by the difference of what is real and what is surreal…. which in other case would have been to a little extent and would have subsided had u been under the glory of stamped authorization ( LOLzz I simple hate it ) ……coz in the end you are a pauper and miser and need someone some or the other time. Well people go even beyond that and take extreme steps like EMA (Extreme no no Extra marital affairs :P :P and oops m I sounding a bit harsh but Hell yeah DIVORCE ) but let’s not delve into them……..:)
So Manu u say both are bad!!!! …Nooooooo but tell me frankly doesn’t then life becomes synonymous to adjustment in every aspect in both the cases. Well for the sake of being together or for your own mental and physical needs or for your societal imagery or whatever maybe it is only the law of nature that everything loses its shine with time and that what happens with relations now a days and so people need a change and a break and if something uncommon is there THATSS ATTRACTIVE!!!
Was watching a South African movie where the black gangster asks his White rich wife that what is it that attracts you rich white people to the black neighborhood?? The Answer was POVERTY …damn just because they are polar opposites you are attracted……wait a minute Physics also say so Gosh and somebody croons Bad GUYS get the best !!!
Interestingly the ever changing trend and incomplete evolution of life style the vociferousness has increased staggeringly high at a level where emotional quotient has stooped very low and so called dogmatism has entered into the belief system. Stigma of those days when adjustment used to take a face of submission then ultimately helplessness that nothing can’t be done has gone. And so an interesting aspect of righteousness of women and equality prevailed for good, gone are the days when the tethered were controlled on a whimsical pattern of the male dominated society. Well, that has also created a difference and rift because those in need of this understanding and belief are still the ones that are left out either due to extra zealousness or total oblivion of the facts that change has occurred …but as always happens the cons of any trends are more effective and devastating, and bearing the brunt are relations. (Don’t know why it is said a woman is a women’s worst enemy). Eventually what trickles down is:
The ego clashes and the urge for an understanding by their better halves will always be present rrespective of facts that the implied quotient and understanding will be more dominated than straightforwardness.
Second the cry for freedom & possessiveness will be there no matter how much liberty relationship enjoys, and hence will be a tight rope between freedoms and “Do not care for me anymore “thing. If it’s lack of freedom you know all hell break loose, but if it’s more of freedom and something goes awry in that assumed feeling of stupidity and freedom, one get enlightens of the so called your perceive and implied fact that other cares for you no more, because of guilty. Point blank either don’t feel guilty and have faith or do not ever attempt to do and then try to take in confidence.
And let’s not discuss about the impact of “Other People” in personal lives.
Nyways with people around me getting married and tying nuptial knots also looking at the people who already are tied, oops taken a vow to spend their 7 births(gosh doesn’t that seems a bit too optimistic) …..Was thinking is it really that necessary and mandatory to be with someone. I mean, yes there is love there is selflessness, care and responsibilities and then age old tirade to be with someone in old age as loneliness will scoff and chomp you out. But do we stick around when God Sent affirmation irrespective of this so called thing RELIGION, I mean the method you were tied to your loved ones is bestowed upon us.
Interestingly at this juncture and age everyone is awfully curious looking for their Mr. Perfect and Mrs. Right…that judgments seep through impossibly fast. Well is it the social pressure or the loneliness bug that eats you which compels you to change sometimes so drastically?? …..Be nice open hearted care for your better half. But regrettably you decide to look for yourself also ooo a serious crime in these turbulent times as the common human tendency …ehh trying to stand on two boats and row in one!!! Are you? Precisely this is the age for you to metamorphose, get accustomed to the traditions and yes be a vanguard of our great society…..and then Ultimate realization struck you MAA KI AANKH …..WHO AM I or to be blunt WHO WAS I ???
It’s not as if you are self centered absorbed moron philosophizing about oneself, but a normal complete simple idiotic person thinking of changing in the world through his goodliness. Profit was not materialistic but it was as naïve & innocent as what you cherished and desired and you did. Buttt and yes I mean a big but, after the sacred tie Lolz you gifted, you squandered your happiness. Don’t try to pinpoint & blame, because you only chose to be in this situation and mixed your trust and life and shared with the other’s life, its genuine, you can’t abscond and run as someone else has (hopefully :P) bequeathed everything for you with utmost faith( THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT MAJORITY THINKS). Amazed hope so then? So why this whole idea of coming together was it Love, Infatuation or getting it stamped & approved by the torchbearers of society and God given relations and then ultimately going thru the ordeal ,,,,,,guess what the GEN X came with a trend called LIVIN or staying together.. get to know each other and then deciding for the trademark stamp … (haha forgive me for using the word stamp,,, but it suxx yeah the whole approval , does Love really needs a certification or is it a demonic barbarian invading the life ) ….yeahhhh so this Livin relation was like a Supernova solution to this “PROBLEM” …..M sorry folks it backfired, extreme and utter failure resulting in more chaotic situations …you probably will ask – REASONS!! Observation stands as a definition” before being together you acted what you wanted to be portrayed but when u move together ….the TAKENFORGRANTED effect looms large and then starts the differences, differences in opinions, differences in thinking, differences in life style the whole differences in life and probably the whole foundation is shaken by the difference of what is real and what is surreal…. which in other case would have been to a little extent and would have subsided had u been under the glory of stamped authorization ( LOLzz I simple hate it ) ……coz in the end you are a pauper and miser and need someone some or the other time. Well people go even beyond that and take extreme steps like EMA (Extreme no no Extra marital affairs :P :P and oops m I sounding a bit harsh but Hell yeah DIVORCE ) but let’s not delve into them……..:)
So Manu u say both are bad!!!! …Nooooooo but tell me frankly doesn’t then life becomes synonymous to adjustment in every aspect in both the cases. Well for the sake of being together or for your own mental and physical needs or for your societal imagery or whatever maybe it is only the law of nature that everything loses its shine with time and that what happens with relations now a days and so people need a change and a break and if something uncommon is there THATSS ATTRACTIVE!!!
Was watching a South African movie where the black gangster asks his White rich wife that what is it that attracts you rich white people to the black neighborhood?? The Answer was POVERTY …damn just because they are polar opposites you are attracted……wait a minute Physics also say so Gosh and somebody croons Bad GUYS get the best !!!
Interestingly the ever changing trend and incomplete evolution of life style the vociferousness has increased staggeringly high at a level where emotional quotient has stooped very low and so called dogmatism has entered into the belief system. Stigma of those days when adjustment used to take a face of submission then ultimately helplessness that nothing can’t be done has gone. And so an interesting aspect of righteousness of women and equality prevailed for good, gone are the days when the tethered were controlled on a whimsical pattern of the male dominated society. Well, that has also created a difference and rift because those in need of this understanding and belief are still the ones that are left out either due to extra zealousness or total oblivion of the facts that change has occurred …but as always happens the cons of any trends are more effective and devastating, and bearing the brunt are relations. (Don’t know why it is said a woman is a women’s worst enemy). Eventually what trickles down is:
The ego clashes and the urge for an understanding by their better halves will always be present rrespective of facts that the implied quotient and understanding will be more dominated than straightforwardness.
Second the cry for freedom & possessiveness will be there no matter how much liberty relationship enjoys, and hence will be a tight rope between freedoms and “Do not care for me anymore “thing. If it’s lack of freedom you know all hell break loose, but if it’s more of freedom and something goes awry in that assumed feeling of stupidity and freedom, one get enlightens of the so called your perceive and implied fact that other cares for you no more, because of guilty. Point blank either don’t feel guilty and have faith or do not ever attempt to do and then try to take in confidence.
And let’s not discuss about the impact of “Other People” in personal lives.
